I got engaged December 11, 2023 in St Maarten and we got married June 20, 2025 in Toronto at Hotel X! It gave us (aka me) a year and a half to plan the wedding and prepare everything we needed. Here is a glimpse of the things I bought and wore for the big day 🤍

Weddings can be a big investment. That is how my (now) husband and I saw it because this was likely the only time all our friends & family would be together. We had people traveling from all over the US, including ourselves. Planning a wedding from out of state is stressful but I was so lucky to have great family and vendors to support us. This wasn't just “MY big day”. It was about having fun and sharing love with our favorite people, and this is how we made it possible. This page contains affiliate links, If you click and purchase I may receive a small commission, at no cost to you. I only recommend products I have personally used.

When it comes to weddings and elopements in this era, there are so many vendors and expenses that fall into your lap. I am a huge supporter of hiring local business owners, but sometimes that's out of budget. Luck for you, I have had to put together a bouquet and boutonniere a handful of times as an elopement photographer. Here are my favorite places to find florals around the greater Portland area and all the things you'll need to put together a stunning floral arrangement for your wedding/elopement!

Disco Cowboy, The Last Hoe Down, Her Last Rodeo Bachelorette Outfit Examples for fall so you’re not too hot or cold

Sharing a few things we used on our special day that didn't break the bank!

Everyone on this list is someone we LOVE working weddings with! We hope you find this helpful as you put together your wedding vendor team.

Cute little gifts you can give your boyfriend or girlfriend for cute occasions or if you just want to make them feel special. With some pretty affordable options.

I’m a 2026 Bride and I love a good deal for less. Here’s my finds for all things ceremony, reception and bridal. More to come!

Looking for some versatile gifts at a variety of price points? Look no further. Surely something, somewhere on here will be at least a little bit interesting to you. There are gifts for music lovers, friends, partners, newlyweds...the list goes on.

The perfect blend of Boho and Farmhouse charm for my dream wedding with my handpicked recommendations and favorite finds, with weathered wooden signs, and vintage-inspired lace accents. Elevate your tablescape with a mix of greenery and babies breath florals. My collection includes a boho-farmhouse vibe.

These are celestial themed wedding decor and other items that I happened to stumble upon. I love galaxy themed stuff, so this stuff definitely caught my eye while I was browsing.

The best way to support small business! Some of my favorite purchases over the year. From special occasions, to gifts, to little treats, here's what I've been loving from Etsy.

highly recommend eloping with the love of your life :) we got married on our 7 year dating anniversary in las vegas, a place that's very special to us. we called this time our wedding week & we spent 3 days in las vegas & then had a mini honeymoon at disneyland for 3 days. saved our money for our 2 week honeymoon in greece then a down payment for our home! :-)

Because saying ‘yes’ was the easy part now let’s plan the rest! The ‘I Do’ To-Do is your go-to list for staying organized (and stress-free) on the road to ‘happily ever after.'

2025 Bride here just sharing my absolute must haves for the big day

With spring/summer in mind all of these pj’s are perfect for a bride wanting an elevated + timeless look.

Spring barn wedding ideas that I used for my own May wedding! We loved how the colors pulled together with our assortment of spring flowers and the outdoorsy vibe!

Wedding season? Sorted. This list is packed with elegant, guest-appropriate dresses that balance style and sophistication—whether it’s a beach ceremony or a black-tie ballroom affair. No awkward ‘too white’ or ‘too revealing’ moments here—just flawless fits you’ll love long after the last dance.Pro Tip: If the bride’s dress is minimalist, go for bold florals. If it’s dramatic, keep it sleek!

Getting married and worried that kids will ruin the most important day of your life? Look no further. Here are my favourite ideas of how to keep them happy. Enjoy!

After all the work of planning the wedding, there's also gifts for others to consider. There are some ideas I used to thank my girls and parents for being a special part of my day.

Love green? Having a wedding with classic foilage and simple white cream flowers. You will love my green dream ideas for that super special green hued color coordinated wedding.

my wedding day glam that will hold up through the sweat, tears and happy dancing! If you haven’t seen my TikTok videos about my wedding day make up and the issues leading up…go watch ! @mee_chellz Long story short I had my bridal trial two weeks before my big day and what I wanted versus what I got were two completely different things so I decided to do my own make up. That meant I had to learn how to do bridal make up from start to finish in a decent amount of time and make sure that it would last throughout the sweat the tears the dancing everything!!

all of the things i’ve bought for my wedding! from decor, bridal accessories, and things that i’ve found to be useful for have wanted!

Some of my favorite things I did and used for my wedding.

Practical wedding gifts for the home that newlyweds actually use every day. Focused on cozy upgrades, kitchen staples, and everyday essentials — not decorative clutter. Tap any item to view details, reviews, and pricing.

Welcome to Bridal Must-Haves by Benable, where we curate the perfect collection for newlyweds embarking on their journey together! Dive into a world of bridal essentials, from stunning wedding attire and accessories to elegant home decor and honeymoon must-haves. Our handpicked selection ensures that every bride finds something special to make her big day even more memorable. Whether you're searching for the dream wedding dress, personalized keepsakes, or practical items for your new life together, Benable has you covered. Say "I do" to our curated bridal finds and start your happily ever after in style!

Whether you're the one planning the bachelorette party or one of the ready-for-fun attendees here are some top recommendations for your bachelorette packing list. For more bachelorette party inspiration check out my detailed guides: https://www.globe-gazers.com/?s=bacheloretteNote this list may contain affiliate links through which I'd earn a small referral commission at no extra cost to you! All recommendations are thoughtfully curated

A guide to help you be the best dressed guest @ any upcoming wedding! (For all seasons)

Class of 2025 Graduation is almost here and it's time to celebrate all of your student's accomplishments with a party. From what to eat, fun games, family trips, and invitations - here's some fun and fabulous graduation party ideas to get you going.

The gear I use at almost every single wedding - I don't leave the house without these things

The ideas will help the diy Bride. Plus there will be places to order everything from invitation to venue decor. So many things to do! I got you.

The best bridesmaid proposal box ideas — from personalized keepsakes to fun, celebratory gifts. This list includes unique finds your bridal party will love, including my own handmade wine charms from my Etsy shop. Perfect for making your ‘Will you be my bridesmaid?’ moment unforgettable. This list contains affiliate links. I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through them - at no extra cost to you

I created this board for anyone planning a Quinceañera and looking for beautiful digital invitation ideas. I’m a designer myself, so I know how much time and money a good editable template can save. Here I’m collecting Quinceañera invitation websites I genuinely like, stylish, easy to customize, and practical with features like RSVP, event details, maps, and more.

A wedding detail box is a MUST. As someone who has photographed many weddings, the details are so necessary to making your wedding photos so special. Here’s things that will make your wedding photographer life easier:

Your ultimate guide to summer wedding recovery outfits — also known as Day 2 looks. These dresses and sets are beachy, relaxed and polished enough for post-wedding brunches, recovery pool parties or coastal celebrations. Expect white, cream and crochet moments that say “I made it to Day 2… and I still look chic.”

Whether it's a personalized piece of jewelry, a shared experience, or a thoughtful keepsake, the perfect gift can strengthen your connection and create lasting memories.

Everything you need to design, print, and assemble your own stunning wedding invitations, programs, menus, and more! From cardstock and ribbons to tools and trusted print partners, this folder is your go-to guide for creating professional-quality wedding stationery at home.

Turn your 70s-themed birthday bash into a disco garden party extravaganza with our custom party supplies! Perfect for milestone birthdays like a fabulous 21st, our collection features pastel-colored original artwork of cute flowers, disco balls, and clever disco lyrics. From personalized invitations to tableware and decorations, we have everything you need for an impressive event right here. Whether you're planning for yourself or someone special, our retro-chic supplies will set the stage for a groovy celebration. Shop now and let the disco fever begin!

Follow this list for my favorite items for a summer wedding - including bridal shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner!!

This theme is perfect for a non traditional, edgy bride. It’s spooky, chic, and sure to be the newest trending theme💀

Stylish wedding invitations designed by various designers. The invitations are easy to personalize online before ordering. Styles include traditional and modern.

Whether you're planning your dream wedding or shopping for the perfect gift, these are the vendors, decor finds, and planning tools I'd personally recommend to any bride!

Things I was soooo glad I had on my bachelorette that we actually used, snacks we actually ate, and stuff I put in the girls bags!!!

Everything I actually use & love from my wedding registry. PLUS the things I bought myself—but WISH I would have put on my wedding registry. Let’s go!

This is how I imagine the most elegant and dreamlike wedding. These are a few pieces and touches I would add if I were designing an elaborate wedding for a celebrity friend!

Are you planning a rustic chic sunflower barn wedding ceremony and reception theme? These are some of my favorite designs for a country western or ranch style event. Easy to personalize and order.

Ever feel that your relationship has turned cold? Do you feel more like roommates than a couple? Here are some items to help spice it up in your love life and bring that spark back to life!

My wedding day must-haves from kits & bags to fits & shoes and emergency essentials.

We had a small, intimate wedding, and I made all the décor myself. I wanted to keep it as waste-free as possible while still making it beautiful. Here, you'll find ideas for creating charming decorations with minimal waste.

This is everything I put together in my bridesmaid boxes and they were a huge hit with my friends. They especially love the travel jewelry box since we are having a destination wedding!

Vegas heat, dry air, and a schedule that does not wait. These are the day-of items I tell couples and planners to pack so portraits stay on time and nobody panics over shine, a stain, or a dead phone. For destination weddings and elopements where the Strip or the desert is part of the day.

Take a look at everything I bring to a wedding as a wedding photographer. Wedding days require a lot of equipment and a lot of back up equipment. There are some fun things I like to use on a wedding day as well!

I had a year between engagement & my actual wedding. Within that year there was so many different events (family party, bachelorette, photos, etc) and I found myself circulating these websites the most for some bridal looks. Note: I wasn't strict about always wearing all white, I'd mix with other colors or wear a nude, etc.

Adding some of my favorite gifts I gave to my bridal party, as well as things I’ve received and loved 💗 if you are ever going to spoil the girls you love the most, it might as well be on your big day!

I was a 2024 bride, here's everything we asked for on the registry and actually got! We only did an amazon registry so everything on here can be found on there :)

Check out these Disney-inspired wedding accessories! 👰✨ From magical touches to whimsical details, these accessories are perfect for adding a fairytale charm to your special day. Create a wedding as enchanting as your favorite Disney stories! 🌟💍

your go to edit for wedding guests dressed this fall and winter with all kinds of price range recs in specific lists. Shoes and accessories also included so you can put together your whole outfit without over thinking it ✨

My favorite additions to my wedding registry! For the future bride who is practical but loves to add a little whimsy!

As a 2027 Bride, I'm always on the lookout for bridal looks in the mid-size range. Here are some of my recent lookbook selections by designers who offer inclusive (and flattering) size options. Everything should go up to an XL or 14 or higher!

I have been in the wedding industry for over 15 years and I LOVE seeing new trends. These are some of my favorite for guest books!

Elopement dress that are built for the birthplace of eloping! These dresses are fun, unique, quirky, elegant and anything but normal. I believe if you are eloping in Vegas, you want a little party in your life. These dresses, jumpsuits and accessories will help your bring the party!

I love love. Valentine’s day can be such a special occasion to celebrate your partner as well as your friends- i love galentines to! I’ve put together a guide from your gifting needs to make this valentines special and stress free

Perfume recommendations for brides

A running list of the prettiest wedding guest dresses I find — the unique cuts, chic silhouettes, and those “where did you get that?” pieces that always photograph beautifully. Plus the dresses that no one else will be wearing at the event :) Whether it’s a black-tie night, a garden ceremony, or something in between, these are the dresses I’d wear myself (and would want someone to send me if I needed inspo). Updated constantly with the standout, special ones. 💌

A list of Valentine’s gifts meant to spoil your favorite person and put a big smile on his face!

At age 66, there's a lot about my former marriage I look back and regret. Among other things, I wish we could have afforded a big and splashy wedding, complete with bridesmaids. I found myself thinking about this, while I was watching the fun romantic comedy: “The Wedding Planner”. This list of Recommendations is the result of the sentimental mood I was in, when I created my Wedding Do-over Wish list. You'll find all the wonderful wedding apparel and accessories any bride would love, regardless of the price. Since this is a wish list, why not really do it up? After all, it's MY second time around :-)

Fun dress ideas for an impromptu wedding that bucks tradition. Lots of sparkle, short dresses and metallics.

In your bride era and ready to celebrate on the green? Look no further! This curated list of recommendations includes the best favors, outfits, and decor to make your golf bachelorette party unforgettable. Whether you're aiming for elegance or fun, these picks will ensure your celebration is a hole-in-one.

I've been a bridesmaid many, many times--here's everything you need for the big day!

I’ve done the research and know all of the bridal trends! From sunglasses to shape-wear, from veils to jeweled head pieces and belts, these accessories are a solid way to enhance all your bridal looks this season!

normally all my lists with be budget-friendly or sales, but i couldn't resist. this list will include things from Amazon at $5 up to who knows how much from who knows where. it's a list I’ve compiled helping all of my lovely bride friends (my day is coming I just know it). for people who don’t want to shop on the same classic wedding sites and want elegant but funky outfits and accessories

Your partner deserves nothing bur the best. Adorable gifts from Etsy for your partner for any occasion. Etsy is an amazing place for handmade and personalized gifts. I want to show you some of my favorites. Here are a few recommendations!

These items are straight off my notes in my phone of items I’ve bought for my wedding or plan to buy! I deep dove into hundreds of websites finding the best dresses, shoes, and accessories.

Here's what I would put in a gift basket for the bride to be.

Throw the ultimate Love Island bachelorette party. 📱💌 I got a text that said you need this list packed with 🌴 tropical vibes, 🔥 sizzling outfits, 🎉 epic games, and 🍹 delicious drinks. Let’s get the party started! 💃✨

All you need to finish of your wedding invitation suite and make it ready to be sent out to your wedding guests. Deocrative ribbons, vellum jackets, handmade paper, paper edge cutters and more!

Here is my hand picked, curated list of chic, personalized gifts for the newly engaged & newly weds, all flat under $20 ! Yes, absolutely. Also cute wedding party favors that every guest will love.

Reunited, and it feels so good! Except, maybe, for those who are in charge of planning the big day. If you have a class reunion or large family get together to plan for this year, start here.Note: This list may contain affiliate links, which means that I may receive a commission (at no extra charge to you) if you make a purchase using these links.

As a recent bride these are items I loved or items I wish I had!! Every bride deserves to be celebrated and feel so special throughout their wedding season! This list includes Bridal accessories to fully embrace being a bride as well as bachelorette party shenanigans and must-haves!

From a bow-themed birthday party to a “She's Tying the Knot” bachelorette party, here's a roundup of the best the bow-themed decor and party favors!

Things I loved for me and my girls as a bride, so I wanted to share them :)

With valentine's coming up everyone wants to be prepared! So what better time than rn to keep your mind from worrying and keep your partner happy? Check out some of my recommendations to help you out:

Hi newly engaged girlies! 🤍 I’m sharing everything I used to design and plan my engagement party — from services and vendors to purchases, DIY tools, and small details that made a big difference.

💍 As a 2025 bride myself, I know how overwhelming (and exciting!) it can be pulling all the details together. This list is filled with the invitations, stationery, signage, and little extras that helped me bring my wedding vision to life. Think of it as your shortcut to the pretty pieces that make the whole day feel seamless and special. If you’re in the middle of planning, I hope this saves you time, stress, and gives you a touch of inspo for your own big day!

his “Love is Brewing” bridal shower theme is filled with cozy café vibes, soft neutrals, adorable coffee-inspired details, and the sweetest touches for celebrating the bride-to-be. From chic signage to thoughtful favors, and decor, this list has everything you need to create a shower that feels warm, elevated, and effortlessly cute. Perfect for the coffee-loving bride and guests who never say no to a little caffeine and champagne.

A jewelry box reflects one's particular flair. A sleek leather box communicates modern elegance, whilst a classic oak chest oozes timeless appeal. These boxes frequently have sentimental value, becoming mementos as they secure important memories and gifts.

Because they’re family too. This collection includes must-have essentials to make your dog’s role in your wedding day effortless and picture-perfect — from elegant accessories and ceremony-ready outfits to comfort must-haves and smart gear for the big day.

The best accessories, outfits, decor items, and practical gifts if you are newly engaged or have a new fiancée friend in your life!

Some super cute, not too expensive ideas for wedding guests as the weather cools down!

If you're looking for some epic new ideas for your spy/secret agent themed wedding, you've come to the right place! Get inspired with this curated list of spy themed invitations, reception decor, wedding spy gadgets, secret agent inspired gifts and attire, and unique spy-inspired details to make your wedding unforgettable.

Some of my wedding day decor , diy parts + fashion and so much more !!